{"id":6498,"date":"2026-02-20T16:19:46","date_gmt":"2026-02-20T16:19:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/?p=6498"},"modified":"2026-02-20T16:19:55","modified_gmt":"2026-02-20T16:19:55","slug":"5-tips-for-the-perfect-first-anal-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/?p=6498","title":{"rendered":"5 Tips for the Perfect First Anal Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

There\u2019s something every beginner needs to know about the first anal sex and preparing their man love hole for this. For all of you who have never tried it, we understand the shivers. However, those of you who have been sticking it up the butt for a while now, you know where the thrill comes from, don\u2019t ya? Sure you do, you devil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why the drama?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Having first anal sex may be very painful if not done right. Plus, it\u2019s not really what you\u2019d call conventional which is why most are getting very fussy about it. On top of it, the first association linked to the rectum is\u2026 well, a big number 2. So that\u2019s kind of ewww. Nevertheless, anal sex is a must in relationship and there\u2019s nothing we can do about it \u2013 except skip it or enjoy it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why do we love it?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s tight. Well, tighter than the vagina which is making penile rubbing way more intense and orgasm \u2013 much pleasurable. Further, there\u2019s the \u201cforbidden\u201d factor that gets everyone going. Simple as that.  Oh and \u2013 don\u2019t think a guy is gay simply because he enjoys anal \u2013 it\u2019s all about tight rubbing, remember?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What if I want to try it?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re sure you want to go up that narrow stream (pun intended!) first consult with your partner. Don\u2019t ever force him\/her into something they aren\u2019t comfortable with. Once they say YES, follow our guidelines below and have the most pleasurable penetration ever:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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1. Make sure you are clean<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

This one goes without question; if you are going to have anal your anus has to be sparkling clean, so clean you may lick stuff off of it (and you probably will).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

First things first, avoid any type of food that\u2019s too spicy or anything that will give you a loose stool. Yes, it does sound gross but that\u2019s the reality of it. Second, schedule a full internal and external cleansing<\/a>. This is not something all couples do but most go by it. Third, have a shower.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Be Safe<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Just because you can\u2019t get pregnant from anal sex doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t catch an STD. This is especially true if it\u2019s the receiving partner\u2019s first time, due to very small skin tears in the anus and rectum. Protect yourself and your partner by wearing condoms, using PrEP, and getting tested regularly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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3. Use Proper Lubricant<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

As the rectum is very tight and sensitive, forcing a penis into it without having it lubed first may cause very heavy pain and tear. This is why using the proper type of lube<\/a> will make all the difference and your experience extremely pleasurable. We recommend using Silicon lube as you won\u2019t need to continuously reapply J<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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4. Don\u2019t go back and forth<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The stuff you see in porn? Don\u2019t do it. Going anal \u2013 oral \u2013 anal (some call this ass to mouth) is one of the most unhygienic things you can do and can cause heavy infections that are hard to treat. Plus, it\u2019s gross. If you want to exercise all three options, go with oral \u2013 anal<\/a> and stick to the pattern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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5. Relax your sphincter muscle<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Your anal sphincter is placed at the entrance of your anus and it plays a crucial role in how much you enjoy anal sex. This muscle can\u2019t relax very quickly which is why you need to be very careful. However, once the muscle does relax, it can stretch quite a bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The key to having it relax is to actually be mentally into anal sex. An added way to \u201cprepare it\u201d is to slip a lubed finger in there and hold it in place for a few minutes. Try fingering a bit until the muscle relaxes. You can also use some of the best prostate toys<\/a> for added stimuli. Don\u2019t force anything, just follow your partner\u2019s reactions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For all of you anal sex enthusiasts out there, anal sex is great if both partners are willing to be patient and experiment with each other\u2019s bodies. Communicate, appreciate, and stimulate that prostate!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

There\u2019s something every beginner needs to know about the first anal sex and preparing their man love hole for this. For all of you who have never tried it, we understand the shivers. However, those of you who have been sticking it up the butt for a while now, you know where the thrill comes<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":6499,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-6498","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-sexrelationship"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6498","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6498"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6498\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6500,"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6498\/revisions\/6500"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6498"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6498"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4guysmagazine.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6498"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}